There will be space in both your life and in your heart which cannot be filled so easily by any incident or anyone else. Still many people get over a bad relationship after a breakup. You can follow these five steps to get over the guy you still like.
Firstly, you must let the hurt out. Believe that it’s not a bad idea to cry when you find it hard to get over your guy. Some people keep a note of their experiences as writing down your pain helps to reduce it.
One effective thing I have seen people do when they are not able to forget the past is, write a letter about the relationship to your boyfriend. Write about all the good as well as bad experiences about the guy. Make sure you let out all your hurt in the letter. Now that you have written it all out, burn it. That’s right, burn it. Never consider giving it to your ex. Let the flames consume the pain along with the letter.
Next you have to decide if the relationship is really over. If you just hold on t the hope that the guy is going to come back, you never can get over the guy.
Do something that eventually symbolizes that everything has ended. The best thing to do in this situation is exchange all the property you have that belongs to the other one. Don’t keep anything. If there is something too small to exchange, throw it away but don’t keep it. Clear your place of all those things that can get back your memories about your ex.
Through this time, depend on your friends. Until you meet the one meant for you, guys come and go, but remember that your girlfriends will be there for you forever. Particularly if you had a heavy relationship you might have ignored your friends. Not only do they help you get over the pasy but they help you to get connected to the social life.
It’s possible that even your girlfriends have had similar experiences in the past. Sharing their side of the story helps you understand more. I might have really hurt you very badly, but others have come out of similar situations, so can you.
Now that you have broken with your guy, you probably have more time now, use it to develop some talent. This could help you come over your past. Take a new hobby which can keep you busy and out of the past.
Join a group or a class I this period to get you out of the routine. It not only helps you forget your ex but also introduces to a whole new circle of friends.
And lastly, learn to move on. Now that you are among your friends, both old and new, do something productive. You do something which can help you come up as a whole new person.
Moving on is the best way to get over guy.