There is the general perception that, online dating is one means by which people can pretend to be something that they are not, usually with the deception that once you are able to marry the partner involved, it would be too late for that partner to cancel the marriage. The general feeling is that, people normally think twice before divorcing. The shame, the reproach, what people would say about divorce all make people decide to stay in some marriages that can be considered nothing but hell.
No matter what your age, height, weight or physical appearance, there are millions of partners would weigh everything you have and decide to marry you. There have been instances where for example, a man which amputated legs but living abroad dated online but never shared anything about his leg problem with his partners. The lady found his upper part very attractive and his achievements, of course his money and agreed for a distance marriage to be conducted for them. The man told the lady his job would not allow him to come for the ceremony so his brother would represent him at the marriage ceremony. Truly, the marriage was arranged for and conducted beautifully. But loooooooo! When the lady got to the man abroad, she was shocked to find that he is a man in a wheel chair with two amputated legs.
Readers from that very day of their meeting personally, hell broke loose. The lady was so disappointed with the fact that, she is married to an amputated legged man. She hated the man immediately and that is how the marriage landed on rocks.
In conclusion, online dating is really a good opportunity to meet your spouse but never pretend to be something you are not. In fact, this principle applies to all successful relationships. For a relationship to survive, do not hide anything. Let the person love you for who you are. Then you can be sure of true love.
If you have found yourself suddenly “on-the-market” again after a relationship has dissolved or are just too busy with your work to spend a lot of time looking for a lady to keep you company, online dating can open the door to the dating scene for you.
The good news is that all you need is a computer and an internet connection to get started. The first thing to do is find an online dating site that fits your needs. There are the large sites that offer many extras like live video chat and even match you up with ladies using your profiles and, also, a lot of sites that cater to special interests like religious preferences, outdoor enthusiasts, gays, etc. You need to choose one or two that will meet your needs. I don’t recommend the free sites. The paid sites have a money back guarantee if you aren’t satisfied and the investment is small. A whole month costs less than one dinner and movie date.
The next thing you need to do is write a killer, but honest, profile and upload a recent but flattering picture of yourself. Now you are all set. Start contacting ladies whose profiles sound interesting to you and answer any lady who contacts you…and do so promptly…not, however, on holidays or weekends. You don’t want to appear that desperate. Don’t give up after a month and think you will never find the right lady for you. New people join online dating services daily and at least half of them are ladies many, of whom, will want to meet you.
You may wish to check more of Victoriousway Publication counseling scripts on dating in general, particularly if you are in the category of those dating online or interested in dating online. See you in our next edition of Victoriousway publications.