Psychological Art of Undistorted Communicating in Relationship

MODE of Cosmic Therapy: Finding and Using Authentic Passion

Undeniable passion is what guides every human being; it is simply expressed in a variety of ways. Sometimes, it’s not even seen but felt as an overwhelming presence. You know perfectly well what I’m talking about; you can feel the vibrant intensity in the room. Some people call that chemistry. I say it is unadulterated passion. We would all be cardboard boxes without the effervescent energy flowing though us. We all want and need to express this electrified energy. A sacred sensual sexual artistic force that motivates us in every action we undertake.

We are filled to overflowing capacity with sensually generated innermost artistic ideas. Art is not just one thing; surrendered to one category. It is the life’s pumping blood to every human, a matter of connecting, expressing, and sharing that which is precious and sacred. We yearn to feel connected to others and most especially with that which is beyond our finite comprehension. We desire to experience that which can not be seen, heard, touched and practiced. This inescapable ‘something’ is what constitutes love, romance, and sexual unions of bliss.

But, often times, humans tend to sell themselves short in romantic affairs simply because by comparing what they can or do have to another relationship which appears happier, more fulfilled, more connected, they diminish their own involvement. But, in all actuality, as Emerson so eloquently stated, “Everyone’s ship look’s bright compared to that which we sail upon.”(Paraphrased) (Until we look under the covers, which we are not privy) Our relationships are generated, maintained and sustained for reasons that are completely inexplicable. That’s why some unions seem so bizarre. You are familiar with the age old question: “Why on earth is he/ she with him/ her?” We never really know; we just are.

What we have to contribute to something or someone is the last thing that we actually contribute. I know that sounds insane but it’s true. What we feel we offer in the relationship IS NOT what we give to the other. IN other words, it’s NOT what is received; anything but. Confusing, I know. The mate would say ‘whatever it is we believewe give’ is but a widow mite’s donation. Why? Because in the process of evolving, in the exchange (release) of energies, we can’t give it, and enjoy it, too. Still confused? Then, think about it in these terms: the ideas we possess of ourselves are NOT the manifestations of what others accept. They accept their particular interpretation of what we send out. The energy must pass through the barriers of filtered distortion they have accumulated throughout their lives. (OH, yes. WE do the same distorting mangling method in our perceptions of them, too!)

Art suffers the same interpretive process.This generally held misconception is one of the reasons why it is so very important NOT to let our eyes betray us. We are not looking at what it is we see. Nothing is ever as it seems! I would reiterate (IF I had already stated the premise) that everyone on this planet has something of worthwhile value to contribute. {Especially in difficult incomprehensible relationships) It’s all a matter of painting on the blank canvas of your life the sensual artistic products you conceive, but realizing there is much more unseen than seen. The ART of relationship incorporates every facet of one’s reality. Not unlike the breath taking masterpieces which hang in the world’s most renowned museums, to the wobbly paint thin worn splintered rocking chair situated on the shabbily planked front porch of the sometimes forgotten small farmer’s house; the divine stroke of imperceptivity endowed sacred creativity artistically hides.

As man so chooses, he alone crochets that unique thread of divinity in the tapestry of intangible relativity found within. The current affairs we are involved operate exactly as is orchestrated for the music of our unique soul’s intent. No matter where our feet are planted, the precise amount of talent used supports the building, and maintenance of the relationship involved. We are all artists. We are constructing ourselves in the midst of the union or without it. When the artist is ready and willing to convey his soul, IT will appear in full splendor.

It is important to remember not to compare, compete, or measure your life’s accomplishments with that of another. The validation and summary will always be false. Seek no other artistic demonstration other than your own. Copy nothing or no one. Be you, no matter how awkward or embarrassed or ashamed you may feel at the time. You will find genuine confidence in your stripped down candid picture’s of self-made rhapsody. You will diminish the restlessness, boredom, and worry by filling the void with all of you! No other thing can do it. No one can teach you ART. [A- A, R-Release, T-Technique.] ART teaches, admonishes, and liberates you! That which you search for is found within the manifestation of your very own communicative artistic display. (Complicated misunderstood verbal exchange) Use the essence of your deepest desires in communicating the unseen portion of yourself.

That’s the only way the other can receive in fullness who you really are. That’s the only way you can KNOW what it is that drives you. What makes you stay in or want to dissolve the union? Run or stay: the outcome is still the same; you must paint your way out of the stagnated box. It’s a matter of unflinching conviction: to be nothing, do nothing, say nothing, feel nothing, appease nothing or nobody until you are appeased. Then and only then can you bring to the forefront the genuine person you have been hiding. No one benefits from complacant deceit.

Throughout your house/work, you are exposed to many photographs and a few chosen paintings, sculptures, and drawings. I solicit you to observe each one carefully, for their supposed merit. Now, I ask you to look again; embrace and penetrate the language of what/how/when/why those particular objects were chosen by you. {IF they were} Do they relate to your innermost world of sanctified privacy? Connect with the divine behind the image: that same divinity dwells within you. See if you can begin to tie together the semblance of truth located throughout the obvious theme. The variant time and lineage shouts the loaded truth.

With a dedicated committed effort, you can see what these artistic items say to you about your relationship. You will also be instructed {from within} to add, alter or change some of them as is necessary to be in tune with your ever evolving soul’s intent. Passion will not be inhibited. The sacred artistic sensual energy gravitates to you and through your various relationships; are you allowing it to flow uninhibitedly within limitless sacred sensual creativity?